How to help your child when they get their SQA results
Your child might be thinking through what to do next. Whether they got the results they hoped for or not, we've got some practical things you can do to support them.
Whatever their results, they can still achieve great things. All they need is the right support and encouragement.
We've got some tips on how you can provide this. If they're not ready to make any decisions, that's okay. We've also got resources to support their wellbeing, which is just as important.
Don't rush any decisions
The most important thing is not to panic. Encourage your child to take time to process their emotions and think about what they want to do next. My World of Work has advice to help them think about their next steps.
My Strengths can help them see what they’re good at. They can also speak to an adviser and talk about their options using our Results Helpline.
If they haven't done as well as they'd hoped, they might be struggling with feelings of failure or letting themselves or you down. But this is a chance for them to learn valuable life lessons about how to bounce back from disappointment.
Show them their options
Reassure your child that they still have many options open to them. There are likely lots of routes into the career they want. Have a think about:
- college courses that lead to university
- Foundation Apprenticeships if they're going into S5 or S6
- Modern or Graduate Apprenticeships
You can learn more about apprenticeship options on Apprenticeships.scot.
Let them take control
Resist the temptation to take the lead. Instead, encourage and support your child to research their own options. If your child is feeling disappointed and worried, it can be good for them to take action and feel they’re working towards a solution themselves.
Encourage them to call and speak to the university or college admissions teams. You could help them make a list of questions to ask during their call, so they feel more prepared. You could also ask if they want you to sit with them while they’re on the phone.
Discuss Clearing with them too, it's a great way to find a place on college and university courses. You can learn more about Clearing on the UCAS site. Encourage them to look into what's available.
They may be tempted to go for the first thing they come across because it’s available and they have the grades. Encourage them to look at a variety of options and consider doing something they enjoy.
Look into appeals and resits
Understanding what options your child has can help you support them as they make their decision.
Appeals
You can find out more about the appeals process on the SQA website.
Resits
Resitting exams in S6 is always an option and having already been through the course, your child will have a very good idea of what’s required. Your child can also resit Highers at college if they're ready to leave school.
Going to college is a fresh start as well as a useful introduction to more independent study.
Some universities and competitive subjects may prioritise students sitting their exams for the first time when offering places. Check with the university whether this will be an issue before your child decides on this option.
